Dooley Noted: 3/15/2014
While in Australia, I observed some kangaroos at a wildlife preserve.
I noticed their eyes rarely fixated on a target, and their bodies darted quickly from unexpected stimuli.
My Australian friend and colleague Simon Tydd said this:
“Yes, kangaroos are quite skittish. They’re used to bring prey.”
This prey mentality made me think of my students and patients. Many of them have moments when their eyes dart as I challenge them with questions or tasks.
Sometimes, they flee. Other times, they freeze up.
Also, students otherwise capable of holding their own are superseded by powerful classmates quick to confident answers.
This looks like nature: Prey versus Predator!
If one is to make substantial changes and advances in all forms of movement and intellect, the prey mentality is a hindrance.
If you don’t know how to get things done, being skittish won’t get you closer. Your limbic system can’t learn if you’re freaked out.
Get focused.
I’m not asking you to “fake it until you make it,” perhaps my least favorite expression for the process of accumulating skills.
I’m simply requesting you try laser focused eye contact and controlled breathing, even if you must mutter, “I don’t know” or “I’m not there just yet.”
Get confident that you can learn.
It’s your choice whether you feel you are prey. You are in charge.
As always, it’s your call.
– Dr. Kathy Dooley