Dooley Noted: 5/14/2017
As I enjoyed morning coffee with my mama this Mother’s Day, I asked her for some answers to some important questions.
She said, “Well, frigg…I was trying to read the paper but I guess I can.”
That’s my mama.
Here’s what I learned:
1. What is the best way to deal with someone who disagrees with you?
“Keep your mouth shut as much as you can, especially if it hurts their feelings. If they are set in what they believe, it’s hard to change their mind.”
2. What’s the secret to a happy marriage?
“Be a friend to your spouse. Same interests help. And different work shifts!”
3. What’s the secret to being a good friend?
“Listen. Don’t advise. Just listen.”
4. What do you expect from your doctor?
“Compassion and honesty.”
5. You’re very healthy, fit, and pain-free – especially for someone in her late 60s. What’s your secret?
“Stay active. Be outside and work outdoors.”
6. What’s the most important thing you learned from raising children?
“That when you love someone, you overlook what they’re doing. That’s part of true love – and it’s hard when you don’t agree with their choices.”
“Jo, I hope you’re done.”
I was. Happy Mother’s Day, beautiful Mamacita.
I hope you wish someone with motherly influence a Happy Mother’s Day.
As always, it’s your call.
-Dr. Kathy Dooley
